The Untold

LEAVING Cape Town International Airport, we are greeted by a breathtaking sight- the iconic Table Mountain looming in the distance, its dark silhouette seemingly cloaked in mist. Yet, as we drew closer, the mountain revealed itself, its flat-topped summit standing proudly against the sky. Our journey into Cape Town offered a glimpse into the city’s diverse landscape.  The drive revealed a contrast of dense residential areas where houses seemed to merge into one another, their divisions unclear from a distance.  Clean roads led us through the town center   bustled with life, on one side characterised by a dense network of rail lines, branching off in various directions like arteries of connectivity, contrasted sharply with the makeshift shelters of homeless individuals (squatters) who have crafted makeshift homes from cardboard and boxes, transforming humble materials into shelters they proudly call home. Venturing further into Cape Town, the vibrant pulse of the city beca...

Let me tell you something real- boundaries are not just about keeping people at arm's length, they’re about teaching people how to treat you.  For so long, I used to think that being nice meant saying “ yes ” to everything and everyone, even when I was burning out. I didn’t realize that every time I avoided setting a boundary, I was giving others the green light to overstep, even unintentionally. When we don’t set boundaries, we’re essentially saying, “It’s okay to take more than I can give.” But here’s the truth: boundaries are an act of self-respect. They’re like a gentle hint that tells the world, “ Hey, I matter too. ” The beauty is, when you set clear, healthy boundaries, people start treating you accordingly. You train them to see your value. This isn’t about being rude or distant; it’s about being honest about your needs. Whether it’s in relationships, work, or even with family, you have the right to protect your energy, time, and peace of mind. Trust me, the ones who care ...

   WIŚNIEWSKI with her husband (second right) and children. MARIA Wiśniewski (second left) with her children. WIŚNIEWSKI at her Villa Victoria residence in Makeni. AS WE step into the peaceful haven of Villa Victoria in Makeni Grey Zulu area, we are enveloped by a sense of history and grace.   Surrounded by lush greenery, this serene abode serves as the home to an extraordinary diplomat, the 87-year-old Honourary Consulate General to Poland, who has dedicated over three decades to fostering international relations from Zambia. Walking into her living room, we are welcomed by art paintings and photographs on the wall that tell her life story – one of bridging cultures and forging bonds. The majestic Polish eagle stands prominently displayed on a custom rug decorating the wall, representing the proud heritage and rich culture of Honorary Consulate   General Maria Wiśniewski. Upon joining us in the living room, her face illuminated with warmth, her smile an affirmation ...